* This article is Yuichi Kudo and Zhuto Aoto "I found out in the latest brain science!How to raise a child who is autonomous (SB Shinsho) is a re -edited.
写真＝iStock.com／kazuma seki※写真はイメージです全ての画像を見る（3枚）「自律」はメタ認知能力のことである
What I aimed for at Kojimachi Junior High School was the "autonomous" of children, and "meta cognitive ability" was set as the central concept of replacing the autonomy with the context of brain science.Aoto has the neurological definition, but there are various definitions I use to explain meta cognition to children.
・ The ability to know yourself, the ability to control yourself, the ability to grow yourself, and the power to turn negative into positive
As Aoto pointed out, the meta cognitive ability is not easy to acquire.There are many adults around me who are in seminars to enhance meta cognitive skills.Many people are receiving business coaching.However, it is not always the case that such people have a higher meta cognitive ability.
One of the reasons why it doesn't work is that some people are satisfied at the stage of understanding the theory with the head, and many people have not been able to continue it even if they can drop it on their own.。
Therefore, in order for children to learn meta cognitive ability at school, all children, teachers, and parents understand the importance of "knowing and changing themselves" and "three words.I believe that adults will create a system and system that can continue training in a certain amount of psychological safety as represented by.
「反省しない」「自分を責めない」が出発点
What you want to be aware of when you enhance your meta cognitive ability is "do not reflect on" and "do not blame yourself."To do so, parents and leaders must thoroughly do not blame their children and do not deny them.
Of course, having objective information about yourself is essential for meta cognition.You will also need training to focus on yourself.However, as Mr. Aoto wrote, even if he does not want it, children are taking external rating from schools, homes, cram schools, classmates, etc. like floods.
The important thing in making meta recognition is the reform of awareness of changing the information and evaluation of yourself to "the food of your own growth" instead of using it as a "self -denial material".That is all the starting points.
In order to change that consciousness, you have to overwrite the part that is a major premise of thinking that many people think is common sense.
"Aim for ideal humans" → "Humans are horny after all" "I do not allow failure" → "Everyone fails, and even if it fails" "go to a good school" → "schoolIt's just a practice area. "" Match it with the surroundings "→" Everyone is different "" Survive with spirit "→" It's normal that you can't do your best. "